Dear Paul B,
HELP!!! I am married to a beautiful woman, who never thinks she is beautiful enough. She has had, ready for this, 5 surgeries thus far on her face, ass and neck. She now feels that she needs MORE work on her face. She finds these little “imperfections” that nobody would ever notice. It is driving me to the poor house. I have three kids, only one is out of college, and that was considerably more than I budgeted for. My middle child is a gifted student. He really deserves the best education and has his heart set on UCLA. My wife seems to think she comes first, which is wrong. She will most likely leave me when she has drained us of all our money. I can’t sleep.
Jeff E.
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Dear Jeff,
Is there a question here? I can’t sleep too well either, and I am NOT MARRIED TO A TOTAL NUTCASE! You must stand about 3’4″ next to wifey. Grow a pair, Jeff. You have kids whose education has priority over her ass, amongst other areas. If you want me to talk her, that isn’t happening; I don’t have enough life insurance. Please, you need to discuss your finances with her. She will have to wait for her surgeries until you either win the lottery or her face literally breaks off in chunks. People who undergo these “senseless” surgeries never want to quit. You may need a neutral party to get past this, otherwise a bankruptcy lawyer might be involved. Tell her the truth, today!
Paul B.
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The woman needs psychiatrist, lots of counseling, and learn to live in her own skin!…This is not a rocket science– but a common sense! LOL!